How to Survive Falling in Love
Without Getting Hurt*

Tuesday September 30, 2008 14:14   |   1,145 views


1. Draw the line first. Know where you stand and how far you could go.
2. Never expect. It’s bad for you.
3. Never assume. It’s bad for everyone.

Yun lang. ;)

*a repost, original published on my old blog
**photo courtesy of dudymas.wordpress.com

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15 Comments »


Precise…. straight to the point… and true.

“The secret to a happy (love)life is to keep your expectations low.”

yun lang din. hehehe



 

I have to agree with the first point, but the other two are the hardest [to follow?].

One will always assume and expect. Those two things are unavoidable.

Besides, when you love it’s implied that you’re ready to risk getting hurt as well.



 

Ken

That’s BS. Hahaha! :P




odin

uu nga BS

hehehe



 

KEN, gagu. haha. :P



 
 

i love it. however, almost always, even the most cautious of persons still do the expecting and assuming. human mind is designed to perceive, categorize, form reactions and generalize kasi (from the point of view of a psychologist).

so hayun, ergo, nobody falls in love unscathed (kasi nga, you fall diba?!). hehe.



 

i totally agree. especially at #2. the more you expect, the more you get disappointed, the more you get hurt.



 

My ex-girlfriend would agree on number 2. LOLOL I kid.

Have to agree with Maki. You “fall” in love, so there’s no point of not being injured. Hmmmm?




but we can minimize the pain, you see. hahaha



 
 

ron

love never expects… it’s hope…

hope is far more deeper than expectations.

expectations destroy relationships.

hope nurtures trust :)

yun lang :)




TREW! natumbok mo! Hope. Don’t expect. hihi.



 
 

jag

ahahaahaha.. homaygas…. anu bang nakain ko at napacomment ako d2? ahahahhahaha… well its my first tym kea im confident (Janina?!).. well, i have to agree with this shit.. ive been down everytime kc maxado akong nageexpect in return.. but it was wrong.. well thats lyf… u’ll never learn until youre nabagok.. ahahhahaa.. kita nlng kame sa next lyf.. awoo! awoo! P.S. Yoshke, i like ur website. im the co-worker of ur ex teacherm8 in korea.. teacherm8 (pauso wahahaaha).. her name is joanne rosales… she introduced me to your website and im having a great tym reading whats in here… la lng… english tapos tagalog?! asan ang consistency.. Wrong gramming pa ko… ahahhaha.. maxadong mhaba ito.. i hope mabasa ng madlang pilipinas at ng iba pang forms of lyf… xiao



 

ginawa ko yan. nasaktan pa rin ako.
now does that sound emo to you?
hehehe.




Kevin

Eto lang masasabi ko:

“You did your best, but I guess your best wasn’t good enough.”

:D :D:D



 
 

machynlleth

simple lang. pero tama ka. :D



 
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