It’s nice being single. You don’t have to worry about coming home late. You don’t need to remember a lot of important dates. You don’t need to be conscious about how you look. You don’t have someone to share popcorns with when watching a movie. You don’t have someone to tell you that it’s all gonna be okay when you have a problem. You have no one to grow old with. Yes, it’s nice being single. It’s sooo nice that all the miseries in the world are attributed to being alone. It may be nice but remember that you can only take too much niceness.
Sarcasm aside, being single may have its advantages but the truth remains the same: no one wants to be alone. That’s why we all strive to search the world for our one true love. If you’re single and you are miserably tired of it, it’s time to stop pitying yourself and start your worldwide search for the right person for you. The right person has always been out there. It’s just a matter of finding them. Here are 11 of the easiest ways to find your true lurv.
11. “Can I buy you a drink?”
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If you are really serious about finding the person of your dreams, go out and look for him or her. One of the easiest ways to find your your Mr. or Ms. Perfect is to hang out in a bar. You will never find your would-be significant other inside your kitchen cupboard. Go out, have fun and meet people. There are many reasons why this is effective. First, this is where guys and girls who love to have fun go and if you’re that type, you just might find someone meant for you here. Second, alcohol gives you enough courage and confidence to introduce yourself. Some of the greatest love stories do not even get a chance to start because they are both afraid to make a move. What a shame.
Why you should do it: Even if you didn’t meet anyone, you still had your booze. Nothing to lose.
10. “Hi. ASL?”
On second thought, you can still look for the person of your dreams without leaving your house. All you need is a good Internet connection. The cyberspace has become an active social world for romance-seekers all over the planet. People who are looking for love sometimes find themselves surfing the net, logging into some networking sites or entering chat rooms, hoping to find the person of their dreams.
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Although it is regarded as absurd by most people, we cannot deny the fact that there have been successful love stories that started through the Internet. In cyberspace, you’ll find all sorts of people; it is impossible you cannot find someone who matches your taste. What is harder to accomplish is finding a person that suits you AND who are serious about meeting people in the web.
Yes, the Internet bridges people from all over the world and allows them to find true love in an instant. You have to remember, however, that the cyberspace is not the safest place in the world to meet the person of your dreams. Without proper discretion and carefulness, your dream romance can turn into a nightmare. You have to explore the cyberspace carefully.
Why you should do it: Who cares? Everyone does it anyway.
9. “Peace be with you.”
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Religious differences are sometimes blamed for unsuccessful relationships. If you want to be sure that you will be spiritually compatible with the person you want to meet, go to a church or a synagogue or a temple or whatever name your religion gives for your place of worship. It gives you a couple of advantages. First, religious difference would not be an issue. Second, you are sure that the person is spiritually healthy and responsible.
If you feel guilty doing this, don’t be. It is not like you are doing a blasphemous act. You are just practicing your religion. While you are at it, why not do some multi-tasking? You want to find the person of your dreams? Praying might be a big help. Just don’t hike your skirt a little higher.
Why you should do it: Hey, God said, “Be fruitful and multiply.” You’re just being obedient.
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